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Alt Site Review
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First impressions of Alt.com
Alt.com is a long running kink focused dating and community site that leans heavily into BDSM, fetish and alternative relationship interests. The overall feel is more like an old school adult community than a modern swipe app. The name is easy to remember and it is clear from the first page that the focus is on people who already know they want something more niche than standard dating.Using the site and getting around
The interface looks a bit dated, with a layout that feels closer to early social networks than current platforms. Menus and links are text heavy and some pages can feel slightly crowded at first. Once you get used to the structure, navigation is fairly straightforward. Search tools, messaging and profile browsing are easy to reach, although some actions take an extra click compared to newer sites. Real time chat and messaging work reliably and I did not run into obvious technical issues, but the design does not feel very polished.Members, content and interaction
Alt.com is built around profiles, messaging and community features. You see a mix of people into bondage, SM and various fetishes, with profiles ranging from very detailed to quite minimal. There are options to add friends, like photos and share your own content, plus discussion areas for more specific interests. Some sections feel active, especially around broader kinks, while more niche areas can be quieter and require more patience. The site also supports both online connections and people looking for in person meets, although how much is available will depend on your location.Limitations and who it suits
The main drawbacks are the older interface and the uneven activity across different sections. It may not appeal to someone who expects a sleek, app like experience or instant responses everywhere. Alt.com fits users who are comfortable with a slightly old fashioned layout and who want a focused BDSM and fetish oriented community rather than a general dating site. You might also like Cougar.com and swing.net.
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Reviewed by James, testing adult sites since 2015
Reviewed by James, testing adult sites since 2015
Our Verdict
Our Rating 4.6/5
Rating based on our testing: ads, page speed, usability, content quality and overall user-friendliness.
Pros
A kink friendly network
Cons
The interface feels dated- Some sections are quiet
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